FLO’S DAY
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The little girl at the heart of it all

Flo’s
story

Florence Joan Turner was our funny, fearless, beautiful little girl, our eternal Princess Flo. This is her story, told with love.

Flo smiling in her pink dress beside a black swan
Florence Joan Turner
01

Our beautiful Flo

A light that filled every room

Florence Joan Turner was born into this world as a truly magical soul, a force of nature. She was a whirlwind of energy and curiosity, captivating everyone around her.

By the age of three, Flo was already a little dynamo, fearlessly diving into the depths of swimming pools, riding her bike and dominating paths on her scooter. Her zest for life was infectious, with her strength and independence shining through in everything she did. Beyond her boundless energy, Flo was a beacon of sweetness and generosity. Her caring nature touched the hearts of all who knew her.

Flo laughing beside a Christmas postbox
Full of fun and completely herself
Newborn Flo being held by her dad
Flo’s story begins
Baby Flo smiling while being held by her dad
Our beautiful baby girl
Flo smiling with her mum at Christmas
Christmas magic with Mum
Flo and her brother smiling together at Christmas
Home, family and so much laughter

Our beloved Princess Flo marched to the beat of her own drum, delighting in imaginative play as unicorns and princesses danced through her whimsical world. She was a master of surprise, adorning herself in Halloween costumes for Christmas and Easter bunny outfits for Halloween, a testament to her individuality.

Music, stories, nature and animals. Flo embraced them all, infusing each moment with her radiant light and boundless magic.

02

The diagnosis

The day our world changed

One morning in March 2023, we noticed Flo’s right eye had started to turn in, so we booked an immediate doctor’s appointment.

On her way to the car, Flo stumbled and mentioned she couldn’t see properly. At that moment, we decided to head straight to the John Hunter Hospital emergency room.

After numerous tests and an MRI, we heard the news that no parent would ever want to hear: “We have found a large tumour in your daughter’s brain, and we believe it is DIPG.”

In an instant, our hearts were shattered along with our whole world.

Flo walking through the hospital beside her IV pole
The beginning of a journey no family expects
Flo in hospital receiving treatment with her favourite soft toys
Familiar comforts in an unfamiliar world
Flo resting in her hospital bed
Resting after hospital procedures
Flo sleeping safely in her mum’s arms
Held close through the hardest days
Flo sleeping at home during the time of her diagnosis
Home, rest and recovery
Flo carefully looking through her colourful crystals
Still curious, still wonderfully Flo
Flo resting with her grey bunny
Comfort, imagination and her beloved bunny
03

Treatment and hope

Every avenue available

Flo’s journey through treatment began with 30 gruelling rounds of radiation, followed by enrolment in a clinical trial.

For the first nine months after radiation, she was symptom free and able to live a normal life. Hope flickered as we pursued every avenue available, but the tumour persisted, relentless in its growth.

Flo lying calmly inside the radiation treatment machine
Thirty rounds of radiation. Our brave, beautiful Flo.

With disbelief, we watched as Flo’s once vibrant spirit began to dim, her strength waning with each passing day.

Flo, then aged four, underwent a second round of radiation under general anaesthesia for a further eight sessions. She regained some of her functions and had stability over the Christmas period.

04

Surrounded by love

Our eternal Princess Flo

Over the following three months, Flo declined. She became “locked in”, unable to speak, move or communicate with us. She then slipped into a peaceful coma.

Flo passed away a month later at home, surrounded by her family, on 12 April 2024, just 13 months after her diagnosis.

Forever lovedPrecious family photographs will be placed here

In her memory, we chose to donate the tumour that stole her from us, hoping that it might one day lead to a cure for others facing the same cruel fate.

Though Flo’s physical presence may be gone, her spirit lives on in our hearts and memories. She is the laughter in the wind and the warmth of the sun, a constant reminder that love transcends all boundaries.

The people who walked beside us

Held by an incredible community

Throughout Flo’s journey, there were remarkable people and organisations who brought joy, comfort, care and music into the hardest days of our lives. Their kindness will always be part of Flo’s story.

Joy

Starlight Children’s Foundation

We are deeply grateful to the Starlight Children’s Foundation for bringing moments of happiness, play and light to Flo and our family during her treatment.

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Care

Flo’s child life therapists

To the incredible child life therapists who walked beside us every day, thank you. You understood Flo, supported our whole family and helped us through moments that felt impossible.

Music

Robert Connor Dawes Foundation

We will always be grateful to the Robert Connor Dawes Foundation for bringing a registered music therapist into our home. Those sessions gave Flo comfort, expression and beautiful moments of connection through music.

Learn about Music Matters
A wish

Make A Wish Australia

Make A Wish Australia gave Flo and our family a precious holiday together, creating joyful memories away from hospitals and treatment. That time together will always be part of Flo’s story.

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Support

Sleapy’s Foundation

Sleapy’s Foundation supported our family with practical help, generosity and genuine care during Flo’s illness. Their kindness reached into the parts of daily life that can become overwhelming when a child is seriously ill. We will share more of the individual ways they helped us here, because every one of them mattered.

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Her journey, in pictures

So much love,
in every chapter

Flo’s photographs are being woven throughout her story, with more treasured moments to be added as her journey continues to unfold here.

Photos coming soon
Flo’s journey
Precious memories

Love from near and far

Mail for
Princess Flo

Flo touched hearts far beyond our family. Messages, letters and beautiful gestures arrived from people who wanted her to know she was seen, supported and loved.

We’ll share a selection of that treasured fan mail here. It will be a record of the remarkable community that wrapped itself around Flo and our family.

Flo’s letters and messages
coming soon

“Though Flo’s physical presence may be gone, her spirit lives on in our hearts and memories. She is the laughter in the wind and the warmth of the sun, a constant reminder that love transcends all boundaries.”

Florence Joan Turner, our eternal Princess Flo, will forever be the light that guides us through the darkness.Return to Flo’s Day